There will be not a balanced world without matriarchy. The day angry jealous men with an ego problem invented a male creator, everything went the wrong way.
Just to make clear from the beginning: i love men and virile energy, i consider them as important part of society, and some of my oldest and most inspiring friends are men. The problem is not men themselves. Women confuse mating courtship with real life.
The skills, men develop to seduce us, are a very important gift to society. But we should - as we say it in German - leave the church in the village. As women refuse worldwide to take responsibility in public, men invented laws not to kill each other too largely (they do it "controlled", by wars, preferably). In prisons there are 96% men, only 4% women (who killed the man that tried to kill her, mostly, or who were"illegal prostitutes," (the others are legal, by the way) or killed the kids, because of the desaster at home..). I can't help constating, that women choose the role of the victim, of Bible's Eve, of the woman that considers herself as guilty, weak and underprivileged and keeping a sort of altruism and shared misery to justify all that.
In the men-written old testament, there is this fantasme of the demon-like wild woman - Lilith. She's the first woman ever, created at the same time as Adam from earth. Eve was created after from the rib, as Adam felt lonely without Lilith, who left him after a while. Lilith refused to go back to Adam, when he desired her (although being with Eve already), he sent his angels threatening to kill her if she won't come back to him... Lilith: you can't kill me, i didn't eat the fruit, i am immortal.
So: the only human being still in "Paradise" is a woman called Lilith, that's written originally in the old papers, and it had been partly cut off by some pope decision, but if you dig, you will find it. And i think it is highly interesting that they didn't just wipe her off that bible. Even transformed into demon, they still kept her in, as somehow they knew (unconscious, i am shure): they cannot exist without her.
If anybody has to wake up with this "crisis" at the moment, it is the women. Wake up and take your responsibility. For shure there is not one single man, that can stop you. Only yourself and your limited thinking. I am convinced that it's not the men's role to do decisions of society's concern. It's not their business (what do we still need to be shure of that???). They are good in presenting themselves as good choice. And they do everything to show their -existing or not- potential. They become bank managers, politicians, rock stars, famous scientists. All to prove that they are good genes. Point.
But - what has this i-try-to-reproduce-myself-as-often-as-possible-behaviour to do with the needs of society? Or environment? (as there are parallels, men treat earth the same as their wifes/mothers, it's the same energy)
There are still some matriachal societies around. They have no public attention, though. Men are afraid about any change and loss of power, and there are those stories about women dominating men. This is patriarchal projection, and has nothing to do with that. Women themselves are so brainwashed allover those centuries that they ended up taking over male beliefs. Women have another structure, when they are not disturbed by patriarchal menaces. But for the moment women's behaviour in patriarchal societies is a survivor's behaviour. They are stressed, because they know, that if their man finds another woman, they'll have an existential problem....
I know, when you read this lines, you will feel a lot of resistance about my ideas. This resistance enables the status quo. Patriarchy. With exploitation of earth and women. Prostitutes. Marriage. Prisons. Wars. And some of those men get completely crazy (trying permanently to prove they are "the best") and they become Napoleons, Bushs, Hitlers, Madoffs.
Yet, it would be too simple to take everything on impressing women.
If you are familiar with structure of matriarchal societies, you probably know families grow naturally around women, as the fathers are not always to identify (even here in Europe nowadays it is said that each 4th to 7th child is of another man than the one you would think), so the line went from mother to daughter and so on. The brothers and sons were free to stay as part of the group, or to join other clans, in case they were accepted there. So they represented the male role model. In matriarchal societies the word "father" does/did not exist.
Until that day arrived, when a man took a woman for himself (looking for a mother, taking a wife). That was the first kind of marriage, probably with a possessive character. The son of this couple had to deal with the new family structure, especially jealousy of the father(who realized that his wife was the mother of someone else). Forced by the father to quit and therefore to create his own clan (the male creator!!!), he took as well a wifemother and continued the game... the day came when he chased his own son away as well, forcing him to create his own clan (they have to become from generation to generation faster higher stronger wealthier - an exact mirror of our problems worldwide) and so on....The absurdity of all that is, that men originally are not really interested in creating clans for the clan itself - ruled by biological laws, they pretend, for having sex. And a new mother.
